I was in Japan. I couldn’t wait and left the house. I brought my luggage with me and walked to the train station. I tried to tap my card to get into the train station but it doesn’t work. My guy friend rushed from the house and found me at the train station. He said “You left without waiting for me?” I laughed lightly and told him I am planning to go to Hachijo to have fun. I showed him the map and pointed to him where the station is. I asked if he wants to go with me. He wanted to but he said he doesn’t have enough money to pay for everything. I smiled and said I have money, I will pay. I wrapped my arm over his and walked to the customer service center to fix my card. I showed the customer service person my card and the machine. I was mad that it wasn’t working. I tried to pay with the digital wallet in my phone but my phone won’t work. I was very frustrated. I told the person I want to go to Hachijo station. I know I spent a lot of time at the customer service and couldn’t find a solution to get the ticket. My guy friend is just standing behind waiting for me all the time. In real life, I have known this guy friend for 6 months. We kind of have feelings for each other but he is hot and cold. Sometimes he won’t reply to my message. He said he is busy working three jobs. Two weeks ago he suggested to hang out, I asked him when he is free, he never replied.
Dreams often reflect our subconscious thoughts, emotions, and experiences. In this dream, several key themes and elements stand out, providing insight into your feelings and perhaps your current situation regarding your relationship with your friend.
Travel and Adventure: Your dream takes place in Japan, a location associated with adventure and exploration. This could symbolize your desire for new experiences or a change in your current life. The specific mention of Hachijo suggests you’re seeking enjoyment and perhaps a break from routine.
Frustration with Communication and Connection: The recurrent theme of problems with your card and phone signifies issues with communication and connection in your waking life. This could represent your feelings of frustration regarding your relationship with this friend, especially since he has been inconsistent in his communication with you.
Support and Care: Your willingness to support your friend by offering to pay indicates your feelings for him and desire to be helpful. It also suggests that you may feel a sense of responsibility or investment in the relationship, despite his “hot and cold” behavior.
Waiting and Patience: Your friend waiting for you at the customer service center may symbolize your feelings about waiting for him to reciprocate your interest or to make a clearer commitment. It reflects the emotional labor you’re experiencing as you navigate this relationship.
Conflict Between Desire and Reality: The difficulties getting your ticket and the time spent at the customer service center could represent feelings of being stuck or blocked in pursuing what you desire, which, in this case, relates to a relationship with your friend.
Overall, your dream reflects both your feelings for this friend and your frustrations with his indecisiveness and lack of communication. It might suggest a need to examine the dynamics of your relationship and consider how you want to move forward, especially given the emotional investment you seem to have in him. It could also be a prompt to consider your own needs and how they can be met within the context of this friendship.